Although, without a doubt, every woman experiences pregnancy differently (and even the same woman can have very different pregnancies from each other), the truth is that when we are in the last trimester, many of us already feel anxious to meet our baby and leave behind some of the inconvenience caused by the huge belly of this stage.
During the final stretch of pregnancy, it is more than obvious that the arrival date of our baby is close, but even so, we are not spared certain comments that may be a bit annoying at this point in the pregnancy. We share you seven phrases that women in their last month of pregnancy are tired of hearing (and four others that would like to hear).
Are you sure it's just a baby?
Sometimes, when a woman is pregnant, other people find it funny and this is one of the phrases that are often told as a joke, but in reality, it can be quite annoying, because it is an opinion not requested about our body. And of course, In the last month I think we can be more than sure of the number of babies That are expected.
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We return to the same about the famous "are you sure there are not two?": Pregnancy is not an invitation to comment on the body of another woman. It is clear that during pregnancy the woman's body changes a lot, but there is no need to note how much (or little) that you have gained weight.
How is it not yet born?
Well no, not yet born, thanks for pointing out the obvious. The truth is that the baby will be born at any time and has to be born. If other people are anxious, imagine how the pregnant woman will be, so that they are emphasizing every time they look at him.
You should rest a little, you look fatal
The belly weighs a lot, the back hurts and it is already difficult to find a comfortable sleeping position, of course we do not have our best face! But neither must be brazen and tell someone, especially a woman with butt pregnancy hormones, that looks fatal.
Enjoy these last moments with your belly
Although it is well-intentioned advice and yes, we should appreciate our belly at its bestBy the end of the third part of the third quarter, it has reached its peak of growth and honestly, most pregnant women want their baby to be born as soon as possible so they can go back to sleep on their stomachs and leave behind many of the discomforts caused by weight gain
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I confess, I said that phrase, especially to other pregnant friends when I was in those first months of postpartum, in which my daughter still did not sleep all night. Somehow I longed for those last weeks in which I could sleep as much as I wanted, although thinking about it and being realistic: my belly didn't allow it and to suggest that I sleep was more like a threat than a piece of advice.
Any horror story related to births
"Will everything go well in my birth?" It is one of the major concerns of most pregnant women in the last month of their pregnancy. We don't need to hear stories about births that went wrong or ask us if we are not scared or nervous because of him.
Phrases that you can tell
But not everything is complaints or negative things. While many of these phrases can be very repetitive and even annoying, there are other things you can say to a woman in her last month of pregnancy and that she would definitely like to hear.
Is there anything I can help you with?
Honestly, this phrase is excellent to say to anyone, but in the case of women who are in their last month of pregnancy, it feels like falling from the sky. For many, there are some things that because of pregnancy can no longer be allowed to do or prepare, so Any help is welcome.
I imagine you should feel exhausted, but I think you look great
There is no doubt: between the weight of the belly, the discomfort of this last stage, as well as our hormones preparing for the end of pregnancy and the imminent arrival of childbirth, Surely we don't look like a magazine model. But you know? That's not important. The important thing is that we are satisfied and that the pregnancy goes well, and if we are well, we sure look great, but a little motivation will make us feel even better.
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In those last weeks, if there is something that a pregnant woman needs, it is tranquility. Perhaps there is some uncertainty about what is coming and there is no one who gives us clarity to all the doubts we have. But a little calm and positivity, always feel great.
You will be a great mother
And finally, the answer to the question that all pregnant women are probably asking, regardless of whether it is the first, second or third pregnancy: will I be a good mother? Can I really with everything that awaits me? Yes. And not only that, you'll be a great mother.
There are some phrase you wish they hadn't told you in the last month of your pregnancy? Which others would you have liked to hear?
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