The compliments have become a tradition for flattery or requiebro to a person we want to flatter. Many people consider them to be macho, but remember that women can also shoot compliments. Many people consider them offensive, but if the limit of good taste or rudeness is not crossed, they are comforting. I confess rendered with a satisfied smile at a beautiful compliment, especially when I was pregnant.
Compliments are characterized by being more or less ingenious phrases that generally praise a person's physique. When we are pregnant, our body changes, but it doesn't have to be worse. As we know, many men like the new curves and the grown breasts of the pregnant woman, and this new situation can be an incentive when it comes to practicing sexual games.
Therefore, the pleasure of feeling the object of desire is nothing strange during pregnancy, although the opposite may also happen. Our body grows uncontrollably and we can feel heavy and broken, maybe we have spots on the face or stretch marks, our legs swell and we don't like to show off. However, both in the first case and in this case, compliments may be welcome.
exist various types of compliments that can make our pregnant day.
The front compliments
Are those compliments aware of our pregnancy and they praise how we carry it. As I said, a pregnant woman can be very attractive to many men, so it is not an impediment to praise the beauty of the woman. Even, hopefully, hormones and healthy eating will make us have more shiny skin and hair. So "What luck will the baby have with such a beautiful mother", "How good that little backpack feels" ... sure we get a smile.
The compliments are especially welcome when they refer to the excellences of the future offspring, such as "From a mother like that, only a chocolate can come out," "What an angel this baby must be," or, something more earthly, "Look at her, a Kinder egg, with the best inside. "
The compliments "from behind"
These are very fun and comforting. The men throw them from behind, or from some point of view in which they do not see us the gut and therefore emitted without realizing that we are pregnant. So compliments are those of a lifetime, without reference to our state.
They are comforting because with a secret pride we realize that our body has not changed so much, at least seen from behind. Really, if we take care of our diet and healthy exercise habits, weight gain will focus on our front, leaving the rear intact.
They are fun, because sometimes you can observe their reaction by realizing that we are pregnant. It has happened to me a couple of times because to walk I choose a bike lane very frequented by groups of cyclists, runners and also along a road. Come on, a great place for the kids to leave their compliments as they approach you from behind and immediately overtake you.
Whispers after the compliment like "Oops, she's pregnant" make me assume that they feel a little embarrassed, even on one occasion a boy asked me for forgiveness! I could not stop laughing ... What none ever told me was "I did not know that this chocolate had surprise filling".
The couple can also compliment
But perhaps the couple's compliments are the best welcome. Surely we will not be great all day or many days for them (or anyone). But as they say, "who had, retained", and for whom we would "have" more if not for our partners. No doubt they are the ones who know us best and have to endure our cravings, our mood swings ... and know that after those little details is the woman with whom they decided to have a baby.
What less than make the future mom feel great, which bears the weight of pregnancy and the hormonal revolution. And not only in intimate moments, of which I am sure that all of you (and you) could give me multiple examples of irreproducible compliments by decorum in these lines. Also compliments soft and fun in different situations, with friends, with family ... The future mom will like nothing more than to see how her partner is proud of her and her pregnancy.
Perhaps some believe that where there is trust, this type of praise is not necessary. But if at any stage of our life as a couple common sense makes us think that we must encourage the best of your partner and feed that "flame", especially when we are adding one more member to the family in such a momentous change.
Do not think that all these compliments I have heard during my pregnancies, or that I was making heads in my path ... But some of them did, and probably if I had heard more I would have felt better one day than another ... And, a reminder to all dads, the pleasure of compliments is comforting during the first, second, third or pregnancy that is. That sometimes, like every human being, "custom" makes us forget the details ...
