It is clear that pregnancy is a time of important changes in women, not only externally, but also internally (hormonal changes, pregnancy symptoms such as increased urination, etc.). The fact is that all these changes can somehow modify the sexual appetite, the ability to have pleasant relationships and, in addition, how a woman sees herself, conditioning in some way sexual relationships.
Thus, although there are women who during pregnancy have more desire to make love than before gestation, in many cases the opposite happens, as has happened three times to Mel watt, a mom who is known for her facet of blogger how The Modern Mumma, which in his fourth pregnancy published a sincere confession about sex.
As we read in The Huffington Post, this woman, mother of three children, had decided that this time everything would be different. He intended, in the face of this new pregnancy, to accept it, appreciate it and become a goddess of sex.
However, being already 30 weeks, and seeing that reality has ended up being another, he decided to publish a status on Facebook that has gone viral:
Relationships during pregnancy; let's stop decorating this reality.
You know, there are women who feel full when they are pregnant. They like to receive some love from their partner. And then there are women like me.
We tried. Really, I think we tried.
I know how I got here and I promised myself that this pregnancy would be different.
I will accept it, I said.
I will feel full, I said.
I will love my husband more and more, I said.
I will become the greatest goddess of sex during my pregnancy, I said.
But here I am.
A whale made dust.
Sweaty
With a salvaslip, and not because it is "wet" that way.
I have a red stomach gut.
My breasts are weapons that can shoot anyone.
I keep breathing.
The last time I plucked it looked like a contortion game.
I have 20 fingers inside me and a lot of body parts that want to leave.
And he always tells me that I am beautiful and sexy. But what happens to this guy? I have hit bottom. I have losses, I stink, I complain and I groan, I am hairy and I recognize that I have more sweat under my tits than he will ever have among the eggs on the hottest summer days. And yet he still loves me. Is he one of those people who likes these situations? Or maybe he is simply the incredible, caring, pampering and terribly liar companion of a pregnant and emotionally unstable woman. In any case, I stay with him.
What do you think? I believe that most (normal) men would act the same as their partner. Love does not know about pregnancies, and in fact, it is a very incredible moment that arouses great admiration in us: "My partner, a baby is brewing!" If that is not to admire, If that doesn't make us love them anymore, I don't know what it will be.
